March 15, 2005

IT'S CALLED A NORM FOR A REASON:

Meanwhile: Sensitizing the heteronormativists (Cathy Young, March 16, 2005, The Boston Globe)

The latest brouhaha at Harvard University, home of the perpetually offended, is over a motivational speech telling women that they can have it all: career, marriage and children. The remarks, delivered by the singer and actress Jada Pinkett Smith on Feb. 26 at the Cultural Rhythms show organized by the Harvard Foundation for Intercultural and Race Relations, were deemed too heterosexual by some. Or, in politically correct newspeak, "heteronormative."

Here's a sample of what Pinkett Smith said, as recounted by The Harvard Crimson:

"Women, you can have it all - a loving man, devoted husband, loving children, a fabulous career. We are a new generation of women. We got to set a new standard of rules around here. To my men, open your mind, open your eyes to new ideas. Be open."

On March 2, The Harvard Crimson reported that some members of the Harvard Bisexual, Gay, Lesbian, Transgender and Supporters Alliance had been offended by the speech and were calling for an apology from the foundation. In response, the foundation pledged to "inform future speakers that they will be speaking to an audience diverse in race, ethnicity, religion, sexuality, gender and class."

So what was the offense? In the words of the alliance's co-chair, Jordan Woods, "Some of the content was extremely heteronormative, and made BGLTSA members feel uncomfortable." The other co-chair, Margaret Barusch, explained that Pinkett Smith's comments, while not intentionally offensive, were insensitive due to their "strong focus on how to effectively be in a relationship - a heterosexual relationship."

"Heteronormative" means treating heterosexuality as the norm.


Oh, for the days of closets.

Posted by Orrin Judd at March 15, 2005 4:53 PM
Comments

I used to wonder about closet doors with the bolt on the outside.

Not anymore...

Posted by: M. Murcek at March 15, 2005 5:25 PM

"Homosexuality has gone from 'The love that dare not speak it's name' to 'The love that won't shut up.'"

Posted by: Raoul Ortega at March 15, 2005 6:16 PM

Heteronormative, schmeteronormative.

The most important line here is "and made BGLTSA members feel uncomfortable".

As soon as we consign to the ash heap of history the disgracefully childish idea that you, I, and everyone else have a right to go through life never being "uncomfortable", then 80% of these preposterously foolish issues will dry up like those ashes in the wind.

As long as we maintain that idea, we will continue to waste our time, energy, and dignity jabbering about these ridiculous (non)issues.

Posted by: Andrew X at March 15, 2005 8:01 PM

There isn't a closet in Cambridge that's large enough.

Posted by: John J. Coupal at March 15, 2005 8:57 PM

Once your epithets reach 6 syllables, you've lost.

Posted by: Robert Duquette at March 16, 2005 4:43 AM

One, two ... I think you're right.

Posted by: joe shropshire at March 16, 2005 10:30 AM
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