November 5, 2003

US, NOT THEM:

A 'Culture'of Inverted Sexuallty: The massive social and psychological disorder we see all around us is not the making of the "gay community." Our current problems -- including even the gay-rights" movement itself -- arose as a result of disorders that first became prevalent among heterosexuals. If we want to take the mote out of our "gay" brothers' eyes maybe we should first remove the beam from our own. (Patrick F. Fagan, November 1998, Catholic World Report)

It is impossible to look at the changes in our culture over the last few decades without realizing the extent of the changes wrought by the new sexual mores. The thesis of this essay is that the strength of the present homosexual movement and the other radical sexual movements are rooted in these changes.

Major changes in thought on the nature of the sexual act began in the latter part of the 19th century, gathered steam in the early part of this century, and achieved a significant breakthrough in 1930 with the breakdown of the unified tradition of Christian religious-moral teaching on the nature of the sexual act.

By the late 1940s American married couples were contracepting in growing numbers. By the 1960s the children of these contracepting couples became the leaders of the sexual revolution, rejecting the need for marriage as the context for the sexual act -- a rejection logically based on their own experiences. By the 1970s the next generation, had enshrined a "woman's right to choose" abortion, thus making it legally possible to be rid of the natural fruit of the sexual act. A generation later, in the 1990s, we have seen the rise of the homosexual-rights movement.

All of these gradual "Slouchings towards Gomorrah" are the natural by-product of the severing of the sexual act from the prime end of that act, and from its fundamental natural function: the begetting of the child. That severance changes the focus of the-sexual act and in doing so changes the adults who so act, both in their own psychological dispositions and in their interpersonal relations. From being ultimately "other focused," sexual mores become "self focused"; from extroversion, sexual affairs move toward introversion; from hetero-focused they become auto-focused.

If one severs the possibility of reproduction from the nature of the sexual act, then it will be difficult to deny the "right" to engage in legally sanctioned sexual activities to be characterized those (homosexuals and others) whose sexual act always precludes the begetting of a child. If homosexuals further argue that they are deprived of an equal right to the pursuit of pleasure -- which they say they cannot derive from heterosexual acts-their argument takes on still more force. Consequently many churches and government bodies have begun to conclude that homosexuals have a "right" to sanctioned unions: to same-sex "marriages." Under the changed sexual mores that now dominate our culture, it is difficult to deny the persuasiveness of their argument. [...]

The massive social and psychological disorder we see all around us is not the making of the "gay community." Our current problems -- including even the gay-rights" movement itself -- arose as a result of disorders that first became prevalent among heterosexuals. If we want to take the mote out of our "gay" brothers' eyes maybe we should first remove the beam from our own. If we are to develop the attitude of love and affection that is central to helping members of the "gay culture" overcome their inversion, then we Americans must first recover our understanding of the relationship between love, sexuality, and permanent commitment to spouse and children. We must first acknowledge the children each of us has been called to "co-create" and to love, and we must show our love both for those children who are already in this world and for those who may yet come to be. Otherwise, if the two inversions -- heterosexual and homosexual continue to compound each other, the future is bleak indeed -- especially bleak for children, and for the society those children will be capable of building.


Homosexuality is a symptom, not a disease. The disease afflicts the entire culture and consists of our objectification of one another.

Posted by Orrin Judd at November 5, 2003 8:53 PM
Comments

This means two things:

1. There was no homosexuality before the latter part of the 19th century.

2. The rate of homosexuality has been skyrocketing ever since.

What? Not true?

Then this must mean a third thing: hooey.

Posted by: Jeff Guinn at November 5, 2003 10:19 PM

I was going to say, baloney.

We might ask, before society broke down in the late 19th century, back when sex was devoted solely to the getting of children, how was that teaching working?

And we have an answer: Semmelweiss.

Posted by: Harry Eagar at November 6, 2003 1:02 AM

Mr. Guinn:

Are we reading the same article? What I read does not say that divorcing sex from procreation creates homosexuality, but rather its the basis for the strength of the current homosexual movement.

And that isn't even the author's main point. The article goes on at length about how contraception is creating a society where heterosexuals view sex like homosexuals do because there is no chance of a child being conceived, as in a homosexual relationship.

Though I disagree with you a lot, I think it does you a disservice to state something the author does not.

Posted by: Buttercup at November 6, 2003 6:55 AM

Fagan's essay, (or at least this excerpt), was internally logical, that is, I agree with his assessment of how widespread contraception effected heterosexuals, and how it aligned hetero- and homosexual interests.

However, the larger point, that he completely misses, is that it was inevitable. Humans have been practicing contraception, with varying results, since time eternal. When contraception didn't work, infanticide was often practiced, which few would argue is more moral than contraception.
The difference here is, since WWII, contraception, whether condoms, chemicals, or IUDs, have had a 90%+ success rate.

Asking humans to NOT practice contraception, is like asking humans to forgo central heating, or air conditioning.
That is to say, it's human nature to attempt to control one's environment, and life, and to bring order out of chaos. By and large, humans like regularity and predictibility.

Thus, contraception.

Posted by: Michael Herdegen at November 6, 2003 7:35 AM

Michael:

were that true that regularity would make contraception unnecessary. Just control yourselves at certain regular times and no contraception is necessary. The point is we wish to satisfy impulse, not behave with any restraint or regularity.

Posted by: oj at November 6, 2003 7:48 AM

Buttercup:

You are right, sorry.

OJ:

You know what they call people who control themselves at regular times?

Parents. Over and over and over.

Posted by: Jeff Guinn at November 6, 2003 8:06 AM

Jeff:

You know what they vcall beings that lack self-control--debased.

Posted by: oj at November 6, 2003 8:10 AM

A buddy of mine used the rhythm method for 7 years with complete success. The instant they wanted a kid, they stopped, with complete success.

Posted by: judd at November 6, 2003 9:33 AM

On the other hand, my wife used the pill for 2 years. In 2 years, we had a boy. Thank goodness for failures.

Posted by: judd at November 6, 2003 9:34 AM

Hmmm. What's the word for baseless restrictions on natural human activity...

Unfortunately, words fail me at the moment.

It's noteworthy, though, that roughly 80% of American Catholics put the Church's position on complete disregard.

I'll have to tell my wife you think our marriage debased. Somehow, I doubt she will be amused. I know I'm not.

Judd:

My aunt converted to Catholicism by marriage. The rythym method got her four more kids than she wanted.

Posted by: Jeff Guinn at November 6, 2003 11:51 AM

Jeff:

That copuld be the problem right there--morality isn't supposed to be amusing; it's supposed to be damned difficult, no, impossible.

Posted by: oj at November 6, 2003 12:01 PM

All of you are ducking the question: is the alleged change really a change; and, if it is real, were the results bad?

Fagan asserts yes to both, but history says different.

Posted by: Harry Eagar at November 6, 2003 12:27 PM

Mr. Guinn:

My condolences to your aunt's children.

Posted by: Buttercup at November 6, 2003 12:40 PM

oj:

That is true, but doesn't change the idea that the widespread use of contraception was completely predictable, and IMO, irreversible.

Harry:

No, the result is not bad.
Nor is it particularly good.

Posted by: Michael Herdegen at November 6, 2003 12:59 PM

Jeff:

(1) The word is "imaginary."

(2) I second Buttercup. I'm guessing this means she didn't take that bit in a Catholic marriage about joyfully welcoming children into the marriage all that seriously. I'm guessing she shouldn't've bothered getting married in a Catholic church.

(3) So 80% of American Catholics are rank sinners. Actually, it's 100%, but I suppose that 80% should mean something aside from a snide commentary on the actual "Catholicism" of those Catholics -- although that meaning eludes me.

Posted by: Chris at November 6, 2003 1:41 PM

OJ:

Morality should have a point other than imposing practice pain. The imposition of reproductive roulette doesn't seem to have one.

Buttercup:

She had her kids during the fifties, and did well by them. I doubt she was alone in feeling rather like a brood mare, though. I'll bet there were women born Catholic who felt precisely the same way.

Chris:

Good word choice.

I didn't mean any commentary on the Catholicism of that 80%; I was only parroting what I have read many times.

Posted by: Jeff Guinn at November 6, 2003 2:40 PM

Harry

"Fagan asserts yes to both, but history says different."

You can be quite spiritual when you talks about history. I imagine you and history have some grand old chats after the rest of us have gone to bed.

Jeff:

Time to come clean. You have frequently pronounced the morality of many on this site to be highly immoral. But you obviously like the word. So let's hear the basis of your morality. How about completing the following: "The definition of moral behaviour is...."

Posted by: Peter B at November 6, 2003 4:21 PM

Jeff:

(1) Thank you.

(2) Then as now, those women could stop being Catholic. They performed an act; they experienced the logical consequence of that act.

(3) I meant a commentary on them. My point -- which admittedly was poorly worded -- was that the fact that 60, or 80, or 99.9% of all Catholics in this country do something other than what they are supposed to do, does not have anything to do with the merits of this discussion. Put differently: Numerically superior heresy does not objective truth make. Put more directly: Decoupling an act from its consequences usually causes more problems than it solves.

Posted by: Chris at November 6, 2003 4:37 PM

Chris:

How much freedom did women have in the 50s? In the particular part of the US where my aunt lived, there were still Catholic Churc inspired laws (how thoroughly observed I have no idea) prohibiting the sale of contraceptives. So everyone, regardless of sect, had less choice then than now. (Thank you, Griswold)

As for the rest, that was a possibly too subtle poke at OJ who has used polling data as evidence for the correctness of a certain position. That said, numerically superior adherence to a position does not objective truth make.

Regardless, your conclusion is spot on.

Posted by: Jeff Guinn at November 6, 2003 5:08 PM

Jeff:

Morality forces you to do that which is painful--other than you wish. You want a world where you only do things that please you--like killing inconvenient people.

Posted by: oj at November 6, 2003 5:32 PM

Harry:

40 million dead babies says the change was bad.

Posted by: oj at November 6, 2003 5:33 PM

And you think that number is larger than the pre-sexual abandon rate? That's naive.

Contraception and abortion were widespread in the heyday of the Christian hegemony you aspire to return to. All the almanacs had recipes for it, and there was another, subliterate thread to the same effect.

Logically, anyway, if you are opposed to 40 million dead babies, one answer would be more general and scrupulous use of contraceptives.

And you still have to deal with Semmelweiss and the Vienna Lying-in Hospital.

Peter, if I have any discussions with History, it's to hear her correct the lies I was taught in Catholic school.

Posted by: Harry Eagar at November 6, 2003 5:47 PM

OJ:

Stop dowdifying my comments.

Abortion aside, I am for a world where people have the right to decide for themselves, expressed through legal guardians as the situation may require, when medical care shall end.

Regarding abortion, the when of personhood is far from unanimous. Because of that disparity, I am in favor of people reaching their own decisions, not the government reaching it for them.

Freedom has a price.

So does tyranny. Apparently you would rather pay tyranny's price.

Posted by: Jeff Guinn at November 6, 2003 8:19 PM

Harry:

Fair enough. History tells me somewhat different stories when I cuddle up to her. She prattles on about sin and evil.

Posted by: Peter B at November 6, 2003 9:24 PM

Peter:

I have meant for people to question their morality, not that they are necessarily immoral.

I never asked what the definition of morality is. Rather, is it possible to characterize the morality of a sexual act in other than its context?

I haven't been able to. Can you?

Posted by: Jeff Guinn at November 6, 2003 9:50 PM

Jeff:

that's not at all what you're demanding when you call for assisted suicide--you're allowing yourself to decide for another that they must kill you.

A few weeks ago you demanded that telemarketers not even be able to make your phone ring, never mind that they can't make you listen,but now you cede others the right to force us to kill them? If sodomy is a right do you have a right to force someone to sodomize you? Is there any right recognized in the Western tradition which allows one person to place an obligation to act upon another?

Posted by: oj at November 6, 2003 11:17 PM

Jeff:

In what context are rape, pedophilia, bestiality, necrophilia, etc. moral?

Posted by: oj at November 7, 2003 12:06 AM

OJ:

I'm not asking them to kill me, I'm asking them to allow whatever outcome will obtain absent intrusive medical procedure. There is a clear difference between the two.

Regarding telemarketers a few weeks ago, you may remember I ended up agreeing with your position.

When I said sex act, I was being sloppy with language. Consensual vaginal sex within a marriage is always moral, is it not? (Catholicism aside). Vaginal sex perpetrated through rape is never moral. The sex act is the same, the context is different, hence the moral conclusion is different.

Similarly for the others.

The point being that anal sex is no more immoral than vaginal sex, because neither has inherent morality. It is the context within which the act takes place that determines its morality.

Surely you would concede that is true for killing. Why is it that the morality of mere biological details can't also be contextually determined?

Posted by: Jeff Guinn at November 7, 2003 7:53 AM

Jeff:

No. There is no context in which anal sex is moral.

Posted by: oj at November 7, 2003 8:04 AM

Why?

Posted by: Jeff Guinn at November 7, 2003 11:40 AM

Peter, agreed about morality, which is why I brought up Semmelweiss. Nobody has cared to justify that one here, have they?

There would be a reason for that.

Killing babies may be either immoral or impolite, but there is a kind of argument for it -- some people benefit to some extent.

But killing mothers? There's not even that much justification for that, is there?

The Catholics have a lot to answer for. Killing mothers is, in a way, the worst of all their crimes. Worse, anyhow, that anal sex.

Posted by: Harry Eagar at November 7, 2003 11:49 PM

Semmelweiss was an ignorance problem, which luckily isn't immoral or we'd all have a lot more to answer for--except for you and Jeff.

Posted by: oj at November 7, 2003 11:59 PM

Arrogance, not ignorance. He told them what the relevant facts were. Their morality told them to disdain him.

So it was a moral problem after all.

As is usual with Christians, from at least the time of Galileo, they don't have to look through the telescope because their sacred texts have told them what's there already.

And if they're incorrect and other people die painful deaths because of that, and if we unchosen call them on it, do they repent? Never yet.

Posted by: Harry Eagar at November 9, 2003 1:43 AM
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